90% people are cynical, whether they are 20 or 50.
I often hear people aged 30-40 say, "If I were as young as you, I would definitely ..."
If the other person is really as young as me, I guess he is still the same, but his age has changed.
Most people are used to making excuses for themselves, because we all live in peaceful and stable times.
If nature, a deer, is 60 years old.
When he sees jackals and butch, will he wait to be eaten?
Someone said, "This deer is so big that it is natural to be eaten."
But what about this road before 60? It is also alive and well.
After all, we live in such an immortal era, and no one urges us. If we are urged, we can still find an excuse not to do it. How happy we are!
I often do homework thinking in the evening and take action for future plans in the morning.
The reason is that I think I can keep up with this era at the moment of my death, because I will use my life to help high-energy people improve their influence.
Will the epidemic hinder you?
There was a conflict with former company partners during the epidemic.
I didn't ask about money at all. He thought I was impatient because the epidemic didn't make money.
In fact, I thought that if there was a clear development direction, I could do some small things to save the country, at least better than being idle (I didn't know the direction at that time)
Original partner: "Because of this epidemic and also because of the epidemic, we won't make any money this year ..."
In fact, this kind of thinking is not adapted to the environment, and it is a state of rejecting the environment.
My grandfather is a local lean generation, the older generation of entity businessmen.
Now he has become a mental old man, laughing every day and feeling like a child.
Once, I told my grandfather that Ma Yun was fine, and then
Grandpa: "Ma Yun, the king of X eggs; Big x; Bad x (automatic shielding) "
Because of the older generation of physical businessmen, it is true that Ma Yun has been greatly influenced.
But grandpa occasionally said to me, "Lou, buy me a razor online."
Even if we scold the air and say that it is very limited in this environment, it is difficult for us to survive.
But we are still breathing, the air in this environment, and the things that can make us happy in this environment.
So you think you are limited, which is just an excuse for you to escape from reality.
My father is over 50 years old this year, and I especially envy his intelligence. He is a super executive businessman.
The transformation from a leather luggage store to an education industry is quite successful.
He has a rare quality of a young man: he loves to toss.
Now the remedial class is doing well in the local area, and now it is waiting for the authorized agent of trademark registration.
Years ago, I made a big renovation of an idle house at home and rented it out as a big house (I also planned it).
Is my father old?
In fact, he is really old. Once I picked him up and felt as light as a child, but he was still tossing and doing something meaningful to his life.
But look at my hometown, my father's big uncle or uncle. They still say "it's good to be young", and then continue smoking: "Yes, 5", "Yes, J" and "No"
The first time I went to Shanghai to shoot alone, I took the high-speed train.
After arriving in Shanghai, my heart was shaking, not because of excitement, but because of great fear.
I feel big, I feel big, but I don't exist. That was the first time I was afraid of a city.
Last month, my assistant and I went to Shanghai to shoot a short personal story. The client is a boss in Shanghai 10 (now the CEO of a digital enterprise).
In the interview, he said, "No matter the size of the city, he will not tolerate you." I was skeptical at that time, because I thought Beijing and Shenzhen would be very tolerant of me. )
He added, "If you go to a new city and work hard instead of working in a new big company, how can you be tolerant if no one knows you? You don't have to work hard; Try to make friends and let more people tolerate you? "
Yes, it turns out that I haven't tried hard to adapt to this environment, so I drew a negative number first. ......
The environment needs us to adapt, because without oppression and coercion, we gradually lose our instinct to adapt.
It's boring if people don't toss around. ......
Although it has not been confirmed, it is now recognized that the ancestors of human beings were apes.
Have you found the flexibility of apes? We don't have it now.
Or my father.
At the beginning of this month, we went up the mountain to worship Buddha.
Because the incense on the mountain is too expensive, one is 30, I wish to buy 9 at a time, 2x9x30=540 yuan.
Just the two of us bought several bags of incense at the foot of the mountain, which only cost 90 yuan.
But the ticket gate doesn't allow us to bring our own incense, so we can only buy it on the mountain. The old man selling incense at the foot of the mountain asked us to stick it in our waist.
Before going up the mountain, I tried to put incense on my waist, but it rang and I didn't light a few.
Then dad said, "Let's go."
"Oh, my God." Look closely, you can't see it at all. The old man put incense in his trousers pocket, put on his coat and put his hands in his pockets. When checking oral sex tickets, he put me in charge of checking tickets, and he just left.
After passing the gate of the ticket gate, he handed me several bags of incense and said to me, "Things are dead, but people are alive."
He told me this sentence many years ago (but I have always been stupid, and now I feel stupid, and I didn't get that flexibility)
But stupid people have stupid solutions.
I have done a lot of business recently and listened to many people's suggestions: "There are some simple things that I must give up."
So I paid a film and television production master to help me with some post-production work.
I will do business and marketing planning and implementation.
The ideal is full and the reality is skinny. Who said "no money"?
It is true that the system established by ourselves may take a long time to improve itself in the early stage.
Because of carelessness, two customers were quite dissatisfied with me and gave me a strong denial.
I told my client about the re-editing, but fortunately my client didn't pursue it because of my sincere apology.
But for re-editing, I undoubtedly need time and energy, and suddenly I don't know what to do.
On the other hand, what can I do? I have to do this to bring the best results to my customers.
Just give the customer peace of mind until three o'clock in the morning, and then get up at 5: 30 the next morning to continue working.
In the past, I would have worried and worried at the same time, and then a few hours later, I was still worried and did nothing.
For people who are inflexible and a little stupid:
"Do it right away" is a way to keep flexibility. At least when you are doing it, try to do it better. If you are not troubled by melancholy, this is a good start.
Last night, I thought of a stupid way to treat "stupidity"
If you are worried about one thing, or think that one thing limits yourself.
Then go to search immediately to see how others solved this problem and find more similar success stories.
I believe that what we are experiencing now is absolutely similar to what our predecessors experienced. Don't feel special.
Find more successful predecessors, how to solve the current problems, and have more solutions in your heart.
Because, the core lies in what difficulties we found in the past, no matter what method we used to solve them at that time, looking back on that matter now, we will feel that it is very simple, no big deal, impossible, and so is the way to find our predecessors.
Do you really think that what you are facing now has no way out?
It can be said that the solution is always much more difficult than it is, but I am really difficult now. That's how I'm limited. I'm limited. There's no other way.
People who have this idea are people with a lack of mentality.
A rich mentality means that there must be a solution to everything, and there will be many ways.
I often use this method to save myself from difficulties, but sometimes I still don't think of it in time.
Because sometimes, you really can't hold on to an emergency.
Although I have learned and completed the integration of knowledge and practice, it is still quite difficult to keep myself informed all the time.
Last summer, when I went to Shenzhen to shoot, I put all the batteries in the checked luggage (I didn't know that lithium batteries were allowed in the checked luggage at that time), but I filled 16 batteries.
Strangely, the airport didn't call me or inform me. Instead, I forcibly opened my suitcase, confiscated the battery inside, put two pieces of paper to detain the battery, and then forcibly closed the suitcase.
After getting off the plane, I chatted privately with the taxi all the way. /kloc-arrive at the hotel in 0/half hour and open the suitcase.
When I saw the note left by the airport, which said "all batteries", I was shocked and immediately looked at it. as expected ...
My nostrils feel like, I don't know, anxiety and pain after eating Chili.
I feel like I'm dying, and there's no solution.
The mouth has come out: "How can this airport do this? What should I do? "
My wife just called me at this time. She told me to calm down and try to solve the problem as soon as it happened.
I immediately realized that I was flawed.
After changing my mentality into a rich one, I instantly calmed down, found the local electronic technology city, took a three-hour round-trip taxi and bought some new batteries.
Although it is a close call, it is meaningless to blindly pursue right and wrong.
Changing a person's mind is an instant. Now that things have happened, we should make adjustments quickly and find a solution.
Everything is so, as long as you feel that you are finished, you should consciously know that you are in a state of scarcity.
Keep a rich mind, in fact, everything in the world is just a change of heart.
When you think you are confined to one place, it is actually a lack of mentality. If you are always missing one thing, then a lot of things will be missing.