Is the child a biological parent or an adoptive parent? First of all, it is necessary to find out what impact it will have on children if they are biological rather than pro-raising.

The child planted some plants at school under the guidance of the teacher. Everyone put a handful of seeds in a long flowerpot, watered them regularly and observed their germination and growth.

Soon, the seeds germinated. Some children do not scatter the seeds evenly in the soil, but in one place, so that when they grow up, they will be crowded into a cluster at one end of the flowerpot. After the teacher found out, he asked the children to transplant some seedlings to the spare parts of the flowerpot, saying that this would be beneficial to the growth of plants. So the child and the teacher carefully uprooted some seedlings and transplanted them to the other end of the flowerpot.

Time passed day by day. The children water them on time and let them bask in the sun. A week later, when I happened to see it, I was surprised to find that the two ends of the flowerpot obviously seemed to come from two worlds: one was lush and the other ... just looking at the photos below, I couldn't imagine that they were the same seedling at the beginning.

You must be able to see which seedlings have been transplanted.

This reminds me of those children who were raised by others after birth. Compared with the children raised by their parents themselves, they are like transplanted seedlings. Because they were uprooted at the youngest and weakest time and left the original hotbed of life. Although they were given the same care later, their growth could not be compared with those without transplantation. This is probably another "congenital deficiency".

Life has its own internal connection. For a child, no one is more important than his biological parents. Being separated from parents at the earliest stage of life will greatly affect children's later growth. These plants vividly show us all this.

Therefore, after the child is born, please raise it personally as much as possible, which is very important for the child's life. Don't let children become transplanted seedlings.

Our point of view: children or adoptive parents.

Because love is a special kind of "work", you need to spend enough time and energy on children and cultivate feelings with them. We know the famous host Yang Lan. She is a busy mother, but she is also a conscientious mother. At home, she will try to stay with her children, play puzzles and games with them, tell them stories, share her feelings with them and listen to their stories carefully; Even when I am on a business trip, I often call back to chat with my children. Although she is very busy at work, whenever she is free, Yang Lan takes her children to the zoo, watches movies with them and shouts with them.

I realized the importance of accompanying my children to grow up, and then I was faced with the problem of how to educate my children the day after tomorrow.

It can be seen that the key to parents' contact with their children is not the number and length of contact, but the quality of contact. As long as you accompany your child wholeheartedly and play games with him seriously, you can let your child feel your sincere feelings and love for him. Children not only need material giving, but more importantly, they hope their parents can meet their spiritual needs.

Therefore, as parents of children, they must make corresponding sacrifices for their healthy and happy growth. Money can be earned less. Don't always think that everything will be fine as long as you make money for your child and provide him with good living conditions. This is not a qualified parent.

In the eyes of others, is there a difference between adoption and biological children? Is it because your children will be filial to their parents when they grow up? And the adopted ones won't! They only think about what is good for them in the future. Is it true that only biological people are good to their parents? They should not know that "feelings have nothing to do with blood sources"! No matter how blood is thicker than water, he may not treat himself as himself.

If it's not your own, isn't it more intimate than your own child, as long as you have a heart to repay? What can I do if I kiss again? What if it's not your own? Don't you live the same life?

Whether it's biological or adopted, let's put this aside for the time being. All children, all one life. If you adopt a child, you let him have the idea that he is your adoption from an early age. How can they be filial to you when they grow up! When I was a child, I treated him as my own child. When I grow up, what reason can they find to say that you are not good to him and don't treat him as your own child?

You raised your child, whether it is your child or not, he was raised by you, no matter where he started, he was your child.

The blood source is different from yours. What does it matter? No matter how deep the feelings are, they are not made of blood.