A marriage without parental support will not last long. I believe in this sentence, not because of how discerning my parents are, but because as parents, when their daughter wants to live with a man for the rest of her life, they will definitely examine the man in all aspects. Although it doesn’t sound good, this man will They took away the daughter they had loved for more than twenty years, so their evaluation of him might be a bit extreme. But we have to deny that their pickiness is often more real and objective than their daughter’s single-minded desire to marry him!
When my uncle pursued my aunt, my grandparents disagreed. Firstly, my uncle’s home was far away, and my aunt was marrying from afar. My grandparents were worried about her marrying her. Secondly, my uncle was very arrogant. , he is very impressive, so his family does not think highly of him. My aunt didn't agree to it at that time, but later my uncle pursued her and tried to persuade her along with her good friends. My aunt couldn't bear it anymore and went home to discuss it with her grandparents. My uncle also came to the house and vowed to his grandparents that he would accompany his aunt home twice a year. In fact, my aunt can only go home once every two or three years now. My uncle is indifferent to my grandparents, and he is in trouble after his business failed. My aunt has no choice but to call her uncle and dad to borrow money. My aunt wrote to me before, lamenting helplessly that it was too late to regret that she had cooked the rice before it was raw.
The marriage between Jane Zhang and Feng Ke was aroused some time ago. The girl’s mother angrily accused Feng Ke of cheating on her daughter’s feelings and coveting her daughter’s property. As the wedding was about to take place, she personally ripped off her prospective son-in-law on the Internet. Outsiders seem to think that Mrs. Zhang is too shrewd. She exposes her daughter's fiancé's personal affairs on a public platform in such a noisy manner, which is too disrespectful to others and does not cover up her daughter's shame. After all, Chinese people are very particular about family scandals not being publicized. Besides, everyone thinks that Zhang Liangying is an adult and can take responsibility for her own actions. There is no need for her mother to make a big fuss in the name of protecting her daughter. But as a mother, even if her daughter is of marriageable age and knows how to protect herself, in the mother's heart, she still needs the care of her parents. Once they find someone harmful to their children, they want to drive them away. This matter has been calm in the past few months, but from time to time there are reports on the Internet about Feng Ke's behavior that shows that he does not love Zhang Jingying.
Marriage is not as simple as a matter between two people. It is a fusion of two families and their relatives. Although a couple lives behind closed doors, their parents are still alive, but they don't get their blessings. Every time they see each other, they want to have a fight. In such a situation, can these young people really be happy?