Marriage is the most important moment in life, and it is also a rare fate for each other. As everyone said: "It takes ten years to look back, a hundred years to cross the same boat, a thousand years to sleep on your bed, and ten thousand years to make a difference." "Longevity together." It can be seen that it must be a special fate that brings two people together, and then cuddle up with each other. For the rest of their lives, they will know each other, share joys, and spend the rest of their lives together. Happiness is the way to hold hands and grow old together; happiness is the steps you take towards sweetness together. But the bride I will talk about next had an affair with her ex in the room on her wedding day, while the groom entertained guests outside the house. What happened? Xiao Yang: Xiaoya and I have known each other for three years. That year we were in Shanghai. After meeting each other and getting to know each other better, I found out that they were from the same hometown or in the same town. I was very excited and felt very destined. In the end, the two of them left their contact numbers, added WeChat, and chatted for more than a year. When they went home during the Spring Festival, they met in the same car and chatted a lot. They felt that they were very compatible emotionally and spiritually. On New Year's Day that year, watching the fireworks in the early morning, we got on the phone and chatted for a long time. The next day, we met in the town, had lunch together, and went back to our respective homes in the afternoon. From that time on, the two were inseparable. They felt that they had fallen in love with each other. Plus, you were in love and I was interested, and the relationship was quickly confirmed. On the way back to Shanghai, we agreed to rent a house together and live together. After the two of us had been dating for a year, there was a man of the opposite sex who often had contact with Xiaoya. At first, I didn’t pay much attention, thinking it was just a chat between colleagues, which was nothing serious, so I didn’t ask anything. Until the National Day, Xiaoya said she wanted to go back to her hometown, but because I was busy with work, I told her to pay attention to safety on the road. In this way, when Xiaoya came back from her hometown, she often became addicted to WeChat, reading it while eating and sleeping, and changed the password on her mobile phone. I also felt suspicious before, but Xiaoya said that she loved me and called me. Don't worry. Just this year, we discussed getting married, and Xiaoya had no objection, so we went home and met with our parents. After finalizing the wedding, it was held as scheduled. On the day of the wedding, because I was busy greeting guests, I ran around outside to receive blessings from relatives and friends, but my bride, Xiaoya, was in our wedding room, having sex with her ex-boyfriend. When hosting a banquet at home, there is a custom that while receiving blessings, the bride and groom should be toasted with a glass of wine. If you cannot drink alcohol, you can have a drink instead. When I turned around, the groom was gone. I thought she must have gone to the bathroom, or was talking to that relative! But I couldn’t find her everywhere I looked. After walking around, I ran to our wedding venue. room, what surprised me was that Xiaoya and a man were hugging each other and kissing passionately on the bed. My face turned pale. If I came a little later, would they be trying to get along? Suddenly I felt that the groom today was not me. Faced with this scene in front of me, my heart almost burst. In anger, I went over to pull the man up and punched him. Xiaoya got up from the bed and pulled me to stop him from hitting me. I was helpless and quarreled with her. got up. Hearing the commotion, my brother also came over. Regarding such a thing, my brother also defended me and gave the male protagonist a good beating. But the thing that breaks my heart the most is that Xiaoya never explained her mistake from beginning to end. Instead, she stood aside and refused to let us do anything. I don’t even know how this man came to my wedding. It was really embarrassing for something like this to happen. Our relatives and friends also went back after dinner, and our affairs were at a stalemate all night. My brother looked at the man. Perhaps Xiaoya figured it out later, and she took the initiative to explain: "My ex-boyfriend came with me as a relative of the woman's family. Just before what happened, my ex-boyfriend suddenly found me and said he didn't want me to marry anyone else. Because he was afraid that he would be there." There was trouble outside, so I pulled him into the wedding room. I originally wanted to explain it to him, but he hugged me and kissed me. I didn't react for a while, and then you guys came. " When I asked why she kept chatting in Shanghai and came back to her hometown once on the way, Xiaoya also admitted that she was chatting with her ex-boyfriend and went back to her hometown to see him, not because there was anything going on at home. After hearing these words, my legs went weak, and the man's dignity was instantly gone.

Originally, marriage was not a child's play, but when it came to me, it turned out to be a joke. I called Xiaoya's parents. After their persuasion, I finally couldn't let go and said that I wanted to divorce Xiaoya because we had already obtained the divorce certificate. This is also life. The biggest scandal in the world. Even though Xiaoya kept crying and begging me not to divorce her, she only loved me. It was just because she couldn't control it for a moment that this happened, and I promise that it won't happen again. But in the adult world, these words are like playing house and have no credibility at all. From the bottom of my heart, I cannot forgive Xiaoya. This is also a bottom line issue and a moral issue. The rest of my life is short, and I don’t want to live in other people’s jokes. In fact, I should have known a long time ago that since Xiaoya returned to her hometown, the relationship between us has changed. It has become a deformity. If she and My ex is still in love. After we divorce, I hope they can get together! Indeed, on the wedding day, who can bear to receive such a powerful gift? Maybe the bride really has an unforgettable relationship with her lover, and when the other party violated her, she didn't. Choosing to resist instead of obeying, in the final analysis means that there is no bottom line of principle. Even if the marriage between two people can continue, one day after the two people quarrel, will the ex have to rush into their lives again? Or will the bride go to her ex to complain again? As the male host said, in the adult world, don’t be so It's better to be naive and face reality. The word "ex", if not grasped well, is really the fuse of the second relationship. It can ignite anytime and anywhere. It is really too dangerous. Grass grows in spring and dries up in autumn; people are the cycle of life and death. We can't change the rules, but we can cherish each other's love. It is really not easy for two strangers to meet, know each other, fall in love, and finally get together. They should cherish each other. Regarding the question of whether you should continue to contact your ex after breaking up, the answer is already in the story. Remember, never have any contact with your ex, and don’t look back! Don’t have the slightest nostalgia, otherwise you will be doomed! Some people say , you can still be friends after breaking up. Yes, it didn’t say that we must not be friends after a breakup. The only prerequisite is that two people should not cross the line and should not meet alone, otherwise it will be very easy for the old relationship to rekindle. A girl in a private message said before: "I feel sorry for myself when I meet someone unkind. I also hate that I am no longer connected with my ex. I also fantasize that I can still be friends after breaking up with him. These are all wishful thinking. People don't think so at all. They only ask me to accompany them." He got through the difficulties, swiped my credit card, and told me everywhere that I couldn't let him go. To him, I was super cheap and the kind of person who was shameless. So, after breaking up with your ex, don't look back. , This kind of back-turning grass is really not for people to eat.” Therefore, supporting the male protagonist’s divorce is not for anything else, but for the original intention. Life is only a few decades, so don’t leave any regrets for yourself. Laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, love when you should love, and give up when you should give up. There is no need to suppress yourself. --END--