I hate the way you do business! I have very little capital, and I rely on borrowing everything else. It means that your relatives and friends, as well as your mother's family, will take risks because of your husband. Forget it if you earn it. What if you lose? When can I pay back the money? Lost everything.
I think your husband is as virtuous as mine. Don't lend it to him Tell him not to borrow it. He hasn't returned what he borrowed before, and there's nothing he can do, otherwise he will sell the house. Divide property and divorce. Such people will not succeed in business. My husband insisted on opening his own shop on 19, and I helped him open it. He has no income from small shops every month, so he has to let me close his shop in Beijing and come back to run his shop. I closed the shop in front of * *. When he came back to run his shop, there was not much water in a day. I said we should talk about customer delivery. He said there were no resources. I say we go and have a look. What are you doing without such a business? I took him to the supermarket and spent a lot of time talking about one, earning 3000-4000 a month. I took him to talk about another supermarket, and he temporarily stopped delivery. Another company did not deliver the goods either. I have a big belly and sent more than 500 kilograms. I got them up bit by bit, and he slept at home. Later, I talked about some small supermarkets in bits and pieces, and I could earn a little more than 20 thousand a month. As a result, he was tired and slow to earn money, so he told me not to give it to others. He said he opened a shop next door, but I didn't agree. He insisted on driving, so I opened it for him in April. I was pregnant before June+10 in 65438, and I was 165438. Come and open the door after giving birth. He said that I couldn't do well without you in the store, so I lost the rent of two stores, the decoration, the goods and all my previous efforts. The other day, he asked me to take over the billiard hall and kick the hall. I smiled and said nothing, so it's not business material. I have to go. So your husband is not the material at all. Don't lend it to him. Stop before it's too late.
You can't run away now, because you borrowed it in your own name. For example, you borrowed more than one million yuan, but your husband didn't make progress. No matter what you do, your loss is the biggest!
If the company's nominal bank loan is the worst to file for bankruptcy, now it is like a relative borrowing slowly, and her husband has no enthusiasm. If you can control the company, you can kick her husband out and control the development of the company; If you can't control the company, get a divorce, get out of this bottomless pit as soon as possible, and divide the property and debts by the way. Part of the company's property can be returned, and the rest can be returned slowly by itself. You can't borrow it yourself.
There is also a rogue method. Divorce and marriage will slowly drag down debts. Pay it back if you have money. Although ugly, it is also a law.
Thank you for inviting me. What if your husband asks you to borrow money everywhere in business? You borrowed more than 200,000 yuan from your mother's family, 500,000 yuan from your brother and 300,000 yuan from your own credit card. You borrowed more than one million yuan for your husband. Now that the money is not paid, he wants you to help him borrow it again. Make a scene if you don't borrow it, and he will quit if he threatens you. His relatives there also ask you to pay back the money, so you jump into the fire pit yourself. Do business if you can, and don't borrow money if you can't. If you want to borrow money for business, you have to ask your wife to help him borrow money. It's okay to borrow a small amount of money, but the amount is huge. Doing business is risky, and you may not be able to make money. If you lose money, how can you pay back this million? I have seen many women do business for their husbands and borrow money from their parents' homes, all of which have no good results. Borrowing money is face, and paying back money is face. Many men don't pay back the money, go home to find their wives, and go out to eat, drink and gamble every day. If a woman doesn't take care of herself, she will end up shooting herself in the foot. A woman should not help a man borrow money, let alone help him borrow money from his mother's family. In the end, they don't pay back the money and abuse you in various ways every day. With money, he still goes out to have fun by himself, and you can't live a good life with him without money! How many men look like real men! If he is a real man and has no money in business, he will find a way by himself instead of forcing his wife to borrow money from her family!
If you don't borrow it, you can't borrow it again. There is no way to borrow it again.
Spend all your money on business without funds and project inspection? Isn't this equivalent to taking money to burn? No amount of smashing is enough to burn, stop loss in time.
Even if you take it yourself, do you have to drag all your relatives and friends behind you into the water? What's more, if there is a loan, it is not difficult to borrow. How dare you borrow it if you haven't borrowed it?
So, is your husband really reliable? Raise money everywhere and borrow more than 654.38+0 million to help him start a business. As a husband and wife, it is unbearable. He doesn't care about himself, and he asks you for money everywhere? What about his role as a man?
Yelling at you if you can't borrow money, all kinds of threats? If he has the ability, he can borrow it himself and let his woman take risks. What kind of person is he? This kind of man is not worthy of unswerving support. He has no skill and a big temper. You treat him like a husband and wife, but he treats you like an ATM. If it weren't for husband and wife, I would think he was cheating! If he pats his ass and leaves, what will he leave you? Think about it ~ ~ ~
Expect him to be rich and forget about each other? Wake up. It's most practical to rely on yourself ~ ~
Your husband has small eyes and is not a down-to-earth person. First of all, his fiery personality is not a person who does great things. The chances of success are very small and naive. Stop it immediately. This is a bottomless pit.
I met this kind of husband. You've been here for eight generations. I have no money and cast nets everywhere. Do you know that your husband is really in business? If it was really business, it was a mistake for him to invest so much at first. Great, I got you involved. So many debts, even divorce, are marital debts and need to be shared by two people. If your man still loves you, he will bear the debt. Then you can live a good life in the future!
You already know this is not normal. At this time, you need to go to the finance and lawyer as soon as possible to understand the situation and how to avoid greater losses.
You need to consider the next source of life for you and your children.
I also encountered this situation some time ago. My brother-in-law has been running a supermarket chain for more than 20 years. In the first few years, he made money and supermarkets opened one after another. But in the first few years, I felt that he couldn't turn around slowly, because every year during the Chinese New Year, he would ask us for money to turn around, saying it was to save cigarettes. In the first year, it was100,000, and then it increased by 50,000 and 50,000 every year. My sister asked us, and I asked, so I had hundreds of thousands on hand in those years, but I knew in my heart that my brother-in-law had problems with his funds. Later, I reminded my sister where the money was spent. It turned out that my brother-in-law bought two more houses. In the past few years, the money was not easy to use, so he took out some funds for other investments, which led to problems in the capital chain. The less money he has, the more he wants to make money through other channels, the bigger the deficit, and the more difficult it is to fill the gap. Finally, I couldn't do it. Before I knew it, his parents, brothers and sisters, our relatives and everyone borrowed it. When the bank loan expires, the mortgage on the online platform will be paid back every month, like the 200 thousand we lent him ourselves, without any interest. However, she always has to repay the bank loan. In the end, she had no choice but to sell the house first, because such a big hole could not be filled in a short time.
I think you are the same. Don't stick to superficial things. Husband and wife should sort it out quickly. How much debt is there? Because the bank loans overdue, credit is gone, and you can't lend, it will enter an infinite cycle. So are relatives. Everyone is holding you for money, and you can't handle it. If you can use a real estate or other things to catch your breath, it is better to wait for yourself first. Because you may have something after years of hard work, but when you really can't clean it up, you don't even have the capital to make a comeback. My brother-in-law finally opened two supermarkets, and now there are still a few left, but if we don't make a quick decision, there may be none left.
Individuals are different, you know your own situation best, and only you can decide what to do. This is just an example for you to learn from.